Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Study Hall

So when we last left off, I had the perfect wedding that mom just might not be able to attend. (I haven't given up on my dream choice yet, just trying to be smart.) So it was time to go shopping for a reception hall!

Today I drove over to Thornberry Creek on my way back from work. I had heard from a number of people that it has a large ballroom, quite pretty, decent food, and a big bar (that blurb was from my fiancee). I didn't get very far in as I had not set up an appointment and their event coordinator was busy setting up the banquet hall, but from what I saw Thornberry has a very unique layout. The walls are brick and wood panels (elegant, dark stain). Lots and lots of windows. The pro shop is in a room that looks like a ballroom from the outside (slightly confusing). But the thing that catches your eye immediately is the ridiculously large bar at the entrance (it is as big as, if not bigger than my college dorm room was). To be honest, I'm not sure how I feel about that: it is more casual than the other country clubs in the area (a plus), but seems to send a message that drinking is the main event. Don't get me wrong, I've definitely enjoyed my share of drinking parties or parties that involve drinking. But lets just say that my family isn't all that keen on drinking.
To be fair, I still haven't been inside of the banquet hall and I am sure that it is simply beautiful. The pictures seem to indicate as much.
What I like about their website is that they include blueprints of their rooms, rates,and menus. I haven't seen too many places do this and I wish that more would: it cuts down on time spent searching when you have a pretty decent understanding of what will work or won't and what it will cost you. Wish more places did it! But they definitely need a better website and photos.

Have to tell J about it - potential customer?

So a little bit of K-Math for you then:
+ Facility size
+ online information
- freakishly large bar
~ haven't seen it all
______________________

Not enough information to make a valid decision (I hated proofs in College)...

And until then, continue to check out other possibilities...

Sunday, August 23, 2009

Green Bay, WI Bride needs HELP!

(Good Lord, I'm terrible at this!)

Okay so I have a dilemma for you!

J and I have been envisioning our wedding now for quite sometime and between the two of us I think we came up with the perfect concept.

Picture this:

The ceremony would take place at J's folks with a pretty field behind us. We all stand on mowed lawn. My bridesmaids are in a mixture of dresses, all from JCrew and all some style of blue in cocktail length. His groomsmen are in charcoal gray and black suits. I come down the isle in the Sophia style JCrew dress to a single violin playing bluegrass - preferably an Allison Krauss song. I'm carrying a posy of baby's breath. My hair is wavy with a headbanded birdcage. Our daughter, son, and goddaughter walk down the isle as flower girls and ring bearers. A friend of ours is the officiant. Several friends read a mixture of poetry and prose that J and I feel talk about us.

The reception begins almost immediately following, starting with cocktails and games: bocce ball, croquet, horseshoes, badminton, etc. Dinner is grilled choice: servings of chicken, steak, vegetables, or other. There isn't one cake, but several small cakes and pies - a true variety. Guests dine under strings of lights and eventually stars. There isn't a table perched on a stage, but instead the wedding party sits with their guests and are spread out throughout the room. J and I and our little ones share a table in the center. There isn't a bouquet toss or grand march. We still have a first dance and father/daughter mother/son dances, and an anniversary dance. As the night progresses and the people head out (we would bus them back to their hotel) we'd have a late night snack of s'mores and hot chocolate by the campfire, gazing at the stars.

The following morning everyone heads over to my folks' place for brunch and gift opening. It is held on the walk-out level and guests roam inside and out taking in their beautiful landscaping. Gifts are opened as the gift giver brings to create a more private, personal, meaningful moment (and less embarrassing for me). Guests come and go as desired with no real deadline established, just a relaxed environment for everyone involved.


Sounds perfect...at least to us!

So as we sat down with our parents to discuss this beautiful idea, my mom points out something rather reluctantly: her allergies/asthma. My mom takes Claritan on a regular basis and has seen several doctors about her allergies. But if the pollen count is too high or the air quality is bad she is trapped indoors. This wonderful wedding plan is great, but only if the day permits for my mom to join us.

Do we continue planning the above glorious wedding? Or do we come up with a brand new vision that includes an indoor ceremony and indoor reception? And if so, I could use insight on where to hold it in the greater Green Bay,WI area!

Sunday, July 19, 2009

The 411

So much to talk about! I got to start posting more often so I don't end up overwhelmed with the "what to post?" thoughts.

Okay, so this post is going to be a catch up in order to get you all up to speed and then back to semi-regular postings as I am planning an actual wedding rather than one in my mind!

So when we last left off, J and I are financially unstable, I was in the middle of a job search, etc... oh and now engaged. Bad news, neutral news, and good news.

I found a job - as a school librarian (well, aide). I am so excited about that! Now I have a chance to discover if being a librarian is what I really want to do with my life (I graduated with a BA in English and a desire to get my MA in Library Sciences)! The money is a bit light which makes it a bit tight at home (sorry, that was terrible), but J has been doing much better job wise and we have the end of a financial burden coming up in 2 months so as he would put it we have a glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel. Or something like that.

And then back in late November we had the socks knocked off our feet. I was having a lot of abdominal pain and thought perhaps it was an ulcer. It made sense to me: searching for a job, eating crap (not literally folks), money issues, fighting with J, living in a house that hates me (thats another story), etc. I bet you can see what is coming (why am I the only one who couldn't?)...

Really. So after finding out it wasn't an ulcer (folks, I was 3 months preggers and no idea!) and having a minor freak out, J and I did the usual - worked it out and made the best of it. And now we have little O (who are little C adores).


And that new job I have has summers off, so while I don't have maternity leave, I do have 3 months anyway to recuperate and enjoy being a mom. Which I rediscovered the meaning of with the late nights/early mornings. I get to keep the hours of a college student without any of the reckless fun! Word to new graduates - don't bother changing your hours. Get used to little sleep now because give or take in 5 years this will be you: blogging at 4 in the morning, not sure if you should even try to sleep because your bundle of joy might wake up soon hungry, wet, or lonely.

But honestly, I love this life. Yes, if you cannot already tell, I could use some sleep. But I have 2 of the world's cutest kids, an adoring fiancee, a job that I love, and a summer vacation! Oh, and I'm getting MARRIED!

So I believe that gets you all up to speed! Look for the next post to be something wedding related within the next few days (unheard of, I know).

Sunday, May 10, 2009

News

I'm ENGAGED! Now we can start planning our wedding - for real!

Monday, November 3, 2008

Taking a Breather

I've been trying to keep up on here, but to be honest my personal life is taking priority at the moment and it is quite hectic: job search, more house work, two jobs, and more! I am taking a hiatus for a while. Not sure when I'll return, but most likely not before the Holiday season is over (unless I somehow end up with free time!).

I will leave you with these last two images of a heart-stopping dress I saw on the {ritzy bee blog}. The dress is from the White Chocolate Label by Scott Corridan, from his Fall/Winter 08 line. How gorgeous! I just love the neckline!


Her name is "Heather."


Isn't it just stunning?! *sigh*

You can shop for her at:

Exclusively at the legendary
KLEINFELD’S
110 West 20th Street
New York, New York 10011

Between 6th and 7th
646.633.4300
www.kleinfeldbridal.com

Mariee Gallery
The Shops at Gainey Village
8787 N. Scottsdale Road #120
Scottsdale, AZ 85253
480.946.4343
www.marieegallery.com

Coming in January 2009 to:

Jobyna's Bridal
3325 North Verdugo Road
Glendale, California 91208
818.248.0026
www.jobynasbridal.com